I have constant issues with my husband if he doesn't get his own way. For example, today, he said he wanted to go to the gym. He works from home so usually, when dd needs her nap, hubby will watch ds while I put dd to sleep. If he's not there, it gets really stressful as if dd is tired she'll hit and cry and ds won't stay by himself while I put her to bed, he'll come in and make noise and stop her sleeping. So, I asked dh to wait until dd had gone to sleep until he left for the gym. He cracked it, said I was being difficult, and then refused to speak to me nicely or do anything but lie in the couch in a sulk. I suggested he could try encouraging dd to go to bed with him and his response was to storm over to her with an angry voice telling her " that's it, you're going to bed". This scared her and caused her to start wailing. I got him to back off. I also suggested he could go to the gym but promise to keep his phoneme and come home if there was ww3 going on back here. But he just got mad about that too. I asked him if he had any suggestion but he refused and was nasty to me.
Am i in the wrong here it does my husband need some serious help with negotiation and compromise? It happens all the time!!