We have a 2 year old. My partner likes to drink. When I say drink, I don't mean a glass of wine with dinner, I mean go out with his mates and get sh**faced. He is 30 years old. Sometimes this also happens at our house (after our daughter has gone to bed but I still find it unacceptable). He likes to do this up to four times or more a month, and gets moody if he hasn't had a "big night" in over a week or two. I'm talking serious binge drinking sessions where he drinks until the sun comes up and then sleeps the whole next day.
When he is sober he is a very loving father and caring partner. But we have had these issues with his drinking our entire relationship - it will get better for a while and then go back to the same old stuff again. He thinks his behaviour is completely normal and acceptable.
I need some perspectives on this. Am I being unreasonable to feel at breaking point with this???