so happy right now!!!!! Dh must have got the hint this morning, he came home with an appointment to see someone about setting things up for our future, life insurance etc. He even phoned the man when he got home and discussed our situation so he could send us some info before the appointment. I really thought I was just . I've never been so glad to be wrong. Still a long way to go before things are sorted, he has to talk to his brother yet, but dh has finally taken the first positive step. I'm so glad he has and I've made sure I've told him that.
Thanks again ladies for all your support, I think I may have done something rash if I wasn't able to vent here. You are all wonderful special women!!