Jay11 - I know all about getting frustrated believe me!!!
Arlais - I know a couple of ladies who started 'leaking' early on with no dramas, I think for some it's normal.
I keep having so much trouble with this site, have to mess around with settings to get "enter" and smiley icons to work, won't recognise keystrokes - have to type everything 2-4times and now won't let me scroll back. I'm about to give up, only site I have dramas with, so not happy