DH likes Violet, I like Tessa. We do like other names as well, but these two are the ones we both love. I am not a huge fan or Violet though I am willing to use it as a middle name (depending on the first name). DH hasn't said he hates Tessa, so hopefully I can convince him to like it a little bit more and we can use it, if the baby is a girl. So Tessa or Violet?