Hi everyone. Me & dh have been told we might need ivf in the future due to his low morphology. His counts etc are fine just the morphology is low. He has pretty much completely stopped drinking, only having 1 or 2 light beers every month or two.
Its frustrating though when we go out for dinner with friends & his mates automatically want to do shouts or ask why he isnt drinking. And then make a big deal of it when he says hes not drinking. I know my dh loves a drink but hes doing everything he possibly can to help the situation. Its going to be harder over the next few months with christmas parties, weddings & engagements coming up.
I dont understand why its such a big deal if a guy doesnt drink! And if he does why friends have to make a fuss of it!
We havent told anyone about what we are going thru & we dont want to. At most we might tell family if we start ivf but dh friends we could never tell.
Have any of ur dh stopped or reduced drinking? How did u go about it in social situations? Can u think of any excuses we could use other than him driving or he doesnt feel like it?
Little things like this just make the journey even harder!