Hello and good luck to all.
In regards to choosing CT and CFC we were recommended CFC by or local FS so felt that the medical standards would be equivalent to Australia. They were very helpful and there were no issues with there procedures or professionalism. CT is a fantastic place to be espicially for this kind of thing. THe tourist areas are great and there are heaps of things to do even with a one year old and with three trips in relatively quick succession. The staff at the hotels were friendly as was everyone we met. As we booked the car to the clinic through the tour desk at the hotels they knew exactly why we were there and were very excited for us. We spent one night in Pretoria and i didnt feel at all safe. If you find a donor you like in a different city i would recommend paying the travel costs (if you can). From the little I have read I believe the clinics are good in the other cities.
Lily72 - if you are after an update email the clinic. I'm sure they are quite used to people being on edge and wanting reassurance that all is going well.
Klm0511 - As you go on to medications to regulate your cycle menopause is not a major issue. You should try Egg Donation Australia too if you are looking for local ED.
Thembs - I wouldnt be concerned about 2 out of 8 it just means you have the strongest 2. We got 2 out of 4 and one was ok at day 3 and the other wasnt great. We were devastated, however I am now at 34 weeks with our second son so anything can happen. Hope it happens for you and you get to experience the reflux, having to sleep upright, feeling like an alien is going to explode out of you, peeing yourself as you vomit, getting out of breath as you walk up the stairs and trying to find a boys name that the girls havent taken! Reading that i realise how lucky i am and how much all of you would love to be in my situation. I also havent had any major problems which i am very relieved about.