Emski -I'm so sorry. How wise you were to think through alternatives. Hopefully this will be a totally different process for you - it certainly was for me when my donor produced 15 eggs and they all fertilised - it blew my mind after my own disastrous cycles.
Blinky, good luck choosing your donor. We definitely went for the donor first, clinic second. Couldn't get her the first two times she donated because of timing, but we were given first option for her when she decided to donate again and it was meant to be.
BB4me - I was so nervous for you with those pains but now I can say
CONGRATS!!! I'm so happy for you. I cried over your loss in June (so close to home for me - our transfer was July 1) and so I'm so delighted for you now. Try to relax! xx.