Congrats coco blue!!!
They told me that it's a huge step ( do I look stupid) and said they weren't trying to be rude but do I have health insurance ( they don't!) do I have thousands saved, have I thought about a check up and how I will get no sleep and her and her boyfriend were rock solid before a child and the first year almost broke them and he cried for 3 months straight. But it's fun. Then told me about orange sized clots and you can die.... But it's fun. I regret ever saying anything and now I fear she will go tell everyone which I don't want. The first reaction was. :-I really? So put off
Crafmy: we have the same issues with my inlaws. . We have had a general talk..i would not tell them before i am 3 mokths pregnant as they dont understand.. they dont really like me and think am a gold digger, what do i know about kids? I must be stupid.. then i tell them i was an aupair for 3 kids in the states, show them my bank statement and tell them to not talk about how useless and stupid o am ever again. . Also said that if i ever have kids and they dont put in an effort to accept me than they wont be seing their future grand kids much.. so much effort. .and it hurts as i am norwegian and have all mu family back in norway.. his family is all i have so i do everuthing i can for them to like me.. but am not gonna sit there watching them treat me like ****.. its hard.. but thank god for supportive dp and friends♥
All the best to u.. everyone know parenting is hard but most people also say they would never go back. I wish u all the best and am sure u and ur partner will be great parents, and thatcthe family will change their attitude
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We will be facing disapproval also, but I know ultimately the news will be accepted and then enjoyed. Just gotta get through all the stupid questions just like above. Are you sure you're ready, this is a big step, you don't understand what you're doing etc. they won't know until we are actually utd, but we will tell them fairly early still. I know DHs mother will be initially against it, but really she just wants us to be happy. When she comes around she will be ecstatic.
Ewcm is an indication that you are ovulating, but no ewcm doesn't mean you're not ovulating. In saying that, it is an aid for the sperm so when u are ttc maybe consider a lube to help replicate it if you don't produce it. Don't ever use normal lube though as that kills sperm.
Ladies who are first time ttc be prepared for lots more of what crafty is experiencing- everybody has their 2c when it comes to pregnancy/parenting. Just take what you want from their advice and leave the rest- it's your own journey
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