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    If we were TTC. I'm just meaning without assistance, because if you're going down the ivf path wouldn't there be sperm frozen?

    If we weren't TTC then I don't think I'd even consider it.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    He said recently that he's struggling in his life right now. But he knows he wouldn't have a snowballs chance in hell of ever coming back, so would never admit regretting his actions, even if he did now.
    Is he still with the other woman?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    No problem Technically yes I can still use it, as I could theoretically undergo a cycle without exDH's involvement since it's already a fertilized embryo. He couldn't use it unless I died though.

    Slightly OT, but I received the storage invoice recently and said to exDH we should discard or donate since we'll now never use it. He's currently refusing to do that, saying 'you never know'..??! Uuumm....yes I do know, so if you want to keep it then you pay for it!
    wow I was under the impression you'd have to both sign up to do another cycle. I was in the same situation as you (as you know) but we had to sign an agreement/paperwork for doing one cycle so I assumed I would need his consent to go ahead and use one of the other frozen embies (if we had ny left).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    He said recently that he's struggling in his life right now.
    same with my ex, he looks like hell and is so thin. I had family visiting recently and they said 'gee, he looks stressed!'. I did feel slightly good about that

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pesca77 View Post
    Interesting point about CS. Personally if I was to utilise the frozen embryo (with his consent) after we separated, then I would do so knowing I would not receive CS for that child. I don't think the fob should have to pay in those circumstances at all.

    You have me curious about the legal aspect now though - off to google!
    Pretty sure he would (and should) have to pay CS. It would come down to the rights of the child... There was a similar thread recently on this I think.. Or it came up in a thread.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fleetwood View Post
    Pretty sure he would (and should) have to pay CS. It would come down to the rights of the child... There was a similar thread recently on this I think.. Or it came up in a thread.
    I would assume in this instances it would be like a donation on his part. And if you donate you can't be forced to pay cs.

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    Quote Originally Posted by grooviechic35 View Post
    I would assume in this instances it would be like a donation on his part. And if you donate you can't be forced to pay cs.
    Not sure - was going off a thread on this a while back.. But can't for the life of me remember the thread title/topic. Everyone was adamant it would not be on to waive CS in return for use of sperm. Anyway a bit off topic but was just thinking about it..

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fleetwood View Post
    Not sure - was going off a thread on this a while back.. But can't for the life of me remember the thread title/topic. Everyone was adamant it would not be on to waive CS in return for use of sperm. Anyway a bit off topic but was just thinking about it..
    Do you mean the thread where the guy was going to donate his sperm to a lady without getting a legal contract drawn up?

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    If previous consent given & I was wanting to conceive yes I would I still love ex DP & if he were to pass away if I had the option yes I would as we were TTC /still trying to come to terms with I should have a little new born in my arms now & don't and now we aren't TTC due to separation Not in the right place or frame of mind etc to.
    But if I had stability & wanted another child & the opportunity to I'd prefer my children to have a sibling from same dad & Someone I love rather than a random if that makes sense

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    Quote Originally Posted by redlipsandpearls View Post
    Do you mean the thread where the guy was going to donate his sperm to a lady without getting a legal contract drawn up?
    Hm, I don't know... It was a while back, not sure how long. Maybe(?)


 

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