Children may look like you if they are a few months old even you have no idea about the egg donor. Wait till they grow. It is just difficult to accept that you lose option to choose when you had it because someone did not give you correct information and someone else gave the impression that it was verified. I understand to make sacrifices in case of neccessity. I understand accidents, even unwillingly done human erroros. But I do not believe that this is the case.