DH & I have been together nearly 5 years, married nearly 4, we're both 40 with one DS. He could take or leave it & I consider it a good month if we make love once a month & really good twice a month. We used to not be able to keep our hands off each other then we found out that he has a zero sperm count (DS is from some pretty whiz-bang IVF) & ever since then his libido has been non-existent. I really miss the fun & closeness of it. So, am I the only one with a higher libido than DH? How often is normal to make love?