Really wish everyone would stop telling me I need to plan for my second baby straight away or that "money isn't everything" when I joke that the mortgage doesn't get paid unless I work. And no, i'm not taking years off work to have a family.
Mind your own business. I'm 35 years old - i might not be lucky enough to conceive again. If I don't, does that make me a breeding failure? Or if I actually decide that I can have it all and that having it all means having one child not a station wagon full, does that disappoint?
Aghhhhh so frustrated - and I haven't even given birth to the first one yet.