Ok so ill start with the back story... Dd and I have been on holiday . We were away ten days and have been back a week, with a quick trip to grandparents before home. Ex came for a visit the morning we left, that was the second visit in two weeks. Ex is crazy busy ATM, as its busy season (farm) so element of me forgives that and ok with that. I did leave it up to him to let me know when he was free, as he is the one with time constraints ATM.
So he finally messaged me yesterday, to organise time, I said that today is good, and he said he'd try call then. The message I received today was he's going to stay home, catch up on housework bookwork etc, which I understand also needs to be done when down time comes. He also said feel free to come over and help. So my quandary is, I get he's got to catch up on stuff when he can, but seriously to just wipe off a visit completely for any time during the day? Especially after being so long between visits? So I'm shirty at the message, but at the same time know he has things to do.
And me taking dd to his house is not on the cards, and helping him?? Phhh, there's a reason he is ex. I'm not sure how to respond to this message.. :/