DH and i were chatting last night, about nothing in particular he bought up in convo something this woman said to him - he refered to her as: "im friends with and i work with her....."
I said "do i know her? whats her name again?"... (no i dont know her)
....DH said the name of the contact that sent him the text msg!!
So i prodded a bit more, ...."oh you guys must not have been that busy today to be sitting around talking crap...."
DH: "yeah, this was during lunch break.....oh and i see her at (the sport dh plays)..... so we talk about more crap then too..."
ME: "do you play against her at all? is she any good?...."
DH: "nah she's terrible, i beat her all the time...its a running joke...."
ME: "haha aww as long as its all in good fun then hey."
DH: "yeah, she's cool.".
He's was so openly honest about this woman, nothing seemed to sound like he was hiding or lying. Ususally when he's lying, the conversation doesnt flow. i genuinely think they are mates.
I cant stop him having female mates. THAT would be shoving trust issues right in his face. I dont think he is doing anything wrong. But something wants me to keep tabs on this woman.