i know how he acts when he's guilty. I know when he's lying. I can ask him. But i dont want to bring up the trust stuff again.
As for the PP asking about snooping. i needed proof and evidence so he couldnt get out of it. I had a feeling and was straight onto it and knew about everything. I printed out the emails and did what i had to do then showed him straight away. i also didnt want him to think i was plain stupid.
"snooping"....i call it being a detective.
The whole trust thing - yes it was a bit of a broken time in our relationship, there were obvious trust issues. However we layed it all out, got through it together on our own, eventually the best way we knew how.
Sometimes a relationship has to go through the hard times to make sure the trust is still there......