I think the best thing you can do for my child, is to expose thm to a wide variety of experiences and toys. That's why I hate the whole archaic concept if 'boys toys' versus 'girls toys'. Not because I think ALL children should like ALL toys, but because all children should be given access and opportunity I decide fir themselves what they do and don't like.
I bought DS some woodzeez and silvanian families stuff this Christmas as I think he'll love it, and he has so many 'boys toys' I want him to get more variety and be more open-minded as he grows.
Its a non-issue OP, I hope your husband comes to realise that.