ive never had any help, ive never really asked and people dont ask me because they know me well. i wouldnt know what to do with it and i dont know any better.
I like things done my way, i get annoyed with ppl tying to "help", i find it makes more work for me.
For example, mum might take the washing off the line, but then doesnt know where everything goes, so its left on the kitchen table.....which i forget about, then i have to find the time to put it all away when usually i take washing off and put away straight away, takes me 10mins to do it all.
Same with someone else putting my dishes away - i can never find anything!!!
i could never hire a cleaner - they would NEVER meet my standards.
i have dd in daycare for 1 day a week - that helps me with quite a few things.