Just a little spin off
Are you the type of mum that needs 'help'? with everyday things, like house work, child raising etc? DH's and partners are not included in my question
I don't need help. I can clean my house, fold my washing and look after my kids myself. After all they are MY kids. And that is why I had them!
I understand the 'it takes a village' thing (I think!) but really, do some mum's really need help with their kids?
I see in some posts that mum's and MIL's help with cleaning and chores etc and it seems the norm for some, but I don't get it.
I have an extended family member who has 2 DD's, both primary school aged, and her mum goes over to their place every morning to help her DD get her 2 girls ready for school!
I am the total opposite of that. Although not having a mother probably has more to do with it than I thought
What do you think? I'm interested to hear!
I am a SAHM now but while my 2 little kids were younger I used to work, so I had 2 in day care and 1 teenager, so I've seen both sides of the coin