Hubby is impossible. I went and spent $55 on an engraved photo frame. He got the invitation on his email an he didn't tell me they asked for no gifts instead to bring a plate of food.
So I have to give the gift as its engraved but also have to bring a dish.
Is it odd thy have decided to do a pot lach? Not that it should matter but they aren't doing t hard on money. Hubby is a dr and wife is on 6 months maternity leave. They owe nothing on their house as it was left to hobby when his mum died so they keep most of their income.
Seemed a bit strange - I like the idea just a bit strange...