I always O - no *ahem* assistance required if I'm on top or bottom, but assistance required if *um* from behind (spooning or doggy).
Sometimes I want DH to just finish & deliver the precious cargo , but he insists on "doing a good job".
"...dreaming of a belly full of life..."
I have read that when a man cums the speed is 50kms an hour.
So I would think that if being on top gives you an O, then given that and the speed, gravity doesn't get much of a look in, especially if ones he's 'done' you get off and put your legs in the air.
Yet for women who aren't likely to O either way, man on top would make more sense.
?? My theory anyway, by no means medically proven! Haha
So yesterday and today, CD 11 & 12, I've had dark brown blood stained cm ( sorry tmi) I'm hoping its Ovulation bleeding as I'm not opking this month I have no idea. Never had this before, hoping if it's not due to O it doesn't affect conception. Has any one had similar??
Last edited by SquishyO; 25-11-2013 at 08:23.
I O 95% of the time we try to make BD as much fun as normal bedroom time but sometimes like last night it just isn't going to happen. I was tired, my knee was playing up, my back was aching and I was cramping.
DH attends to me first and I almost always O. If it's been awhile since we BD then it will be quick, but if it's been recent (like the last 4 nights) it takes forever so I will sometimes tell DH to not bother and move on. I've always had problems with dryness and tightness, ?even a degree of vaginismus so I kinda need to be prepped first. Coming off BC has made a difference though.
During BD, I don't know for sure if I O or not. I certainly get the build up but more often than not, DH will finish first. I think maybe a handful of times I have O during. I will often do kiegels once DH is finished, often while he's still inside, to try and help move the little swimmers upwards and away from the light. Can't hurt surely? From what I understand, it doesn't matter if you O before or during, as the vaginal fluid released when you O helps with motility regardless.
Can I please be put down for 10th December
I never O unassisted...some nights only I can make it happen but DP reckons he can and it just gets frustrating haha I end up having to push him away and say "just let me do it!"
During spontaneous s3x I will 98% of the time, but during bd I will probably only 20% of the time. Last night (yes tmi!!) it was TWICE though haha..... Yes that is very very rare.
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