I am due to fly home (UK) in December for be bridesmaid at my bestfriends wedding but I have fallen pregnant (unexpectedly but over the moon!) I am due to fly there and back in 7 days due to lack of leave. Whilst I have read that it is fine to fly I am petrified! I am an incredibly nervous flyer and get VERY anxious so I usually take some Valium to cope especially when I fly by myself, my husband and father are dead against me going and are pleading with me not to go and to think about the health of my baby - which I agree with but I am also feeling very guilty and I hope that if I decide not to go my friend will understand. Any advice?