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    Default Tomorrow's my due date

    So. I should have been due tomorrow after losing little blob at our 13 week scan we were told blob had passed at 8 weeks unknown fetal demise. I had D&C on 24th April & I've hurt & I've cried but today I'm a complete wreck. I keep thinking I should have my baby in my arms by now I have no idea how I'm gunna get through tomorrow. I'm Having enough trouble holding it together today . How do you do it

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    I'm not sure as my due date isn't until end Feb next year(just days before my 30th birthday so I'm hoping to distract myself a bit) but just wanted to send you some hugs.

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    My due date was 17th jan this year and my twin sister had her baby the 16th. It's was very hard thinking why can she have her baby and I not mine when we are identical in every way and were due a week apart but only one of us has our baby to hold. You will get through it I promise. It will not be easy but you will get through it. Do what you think is best even if that means laying in bed and cry all day. That's what I did for that whole week. After that I really felt better as I let a lot out. Don't know if this has helped but just wanted you to know that there are other people who have gone through it and are now sharing their stories. Hope you are okay xxx hugs xxx

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    Thanks ladies I really dunno what ill do tomorrow. I'm trying so hard to hold it all together & not fall apart. Meant to be doing stuff today but just couldn't be bothered doing anything.

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    Some people find comfort in having a little ceremony and letting off a balloon. Perhaps you could do something special like that with your family.

    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    It must hurt so badly. Xx

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    Quote Originally Posted by moongazer View Post
    Some people find comfort in having a little ceremony and letting off a balloon. Perhaps you could do something special like that with your family.

    I'm so sorry for your loss.
    It must hurt so badly. Xx


    That's not too bad an idea since I never got to take babies remains (said there was no fetal tissue left they used all for testing they cut my baby up)
    I do have a tattoo for my little blob so they're always with me. But I guess I just need some sort of final closure for it all


 

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