* Dummy - yes (even though I am not a fan)
* Food wishes - yes... Unless they were overly unhealthy (eg feed my 5 month old a Big Mac)
* cc : hmmmm. To some extent I would follow their wishes and not go to every whimper. But when I go in would be up to me, where my line in the sand is.
Then again even if I was retired I wouldn't be looking after my grand kids on a long term regular basis (eg 3 days a week while the parents work). They can get off their **** and organise/pay a real babysitter. A half a day every now and then so they can do something, yes.