Bit of a vent but here goes...
So since having my baby my husbands parents are constantly wanting to visit (his parents are divorced so it always has to be at seperate times)
Anyway the thing that annoys me the most is that they hardly ever visited prior to our baby being born maybe once or twice a year. So basically they are only coming to visit to see baby and that really p*sses me off.
I stress out easily and find it hard to relax around them like I just cant be myself (its just different with inlaws) compared to my family I dont care if they rock up and I'm in my PJ's or house is a mess.
In hospital after the birth my husbands dad came up every day. I am not close to him at all and really didnt want him hanging around in the hospital room while I was trying to learn to breast feed etc but obviously he just doesn't think about those things.
Now DH mum has said that she wants to visit at least once a week, now I know for some people this is nothing but to me it really makes me mad as she never cared to visit before and I hate having demands made of me. I don't want anything to be different now that baby is here I don't want to see them every week.
Just a bit of a rant to get it off my chest, hoping I have written this the way I am feeling and it makes sense, I probably have missed some things.
I just don't want my feelings rubbing off on my baby and I am happy all the time except for when my husbands parents get bought up I just don't feel close to them at all and have never really had much to do with them and now they are forcing themselves on me and it is annoying the cr*p out of me.