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    Depends, define very bad?

    Not interested? Doesnt want to please you? Low drive?

    I couldn't spend my life having bad s.ex but I would try to fix it if possible.

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    Not a deal breaker for me, the amazing guy much more important

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    I'd be cool with it as I have a non existent sex drive anyway.

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    Bad sex isn't an issue. So long as he WANTS to have sex with me, then I'm cool.

    If it's crap, then so what? It's not like I can't DIY.

    And really - introduce a we-vibe. That thing could make any sex good sex. lol.

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    For me, I can't even imagine a relationship progressing to the point of marriage if the sex was always bad.

    Of course long term relationships have an ebb and flow, particularly depending on external circumstances but for me sexual attraction and pleasure are important elements of a contented and happy marriage.

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    Nope.

    I need sex

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    Nope, not a deal breaker. In the same way that I wouldn't stay with a douche bag just because the sex was amazing.

    The guy I dated prior to DP was African American....and well, let's just say that it is true what they say about black guys. Plus he was clearly very experienced. DP is not quite as experienced or well endowed as my ex (he's not small though, just average) but the passion and love between us more than makes up for it. Plus he's the most wonderful partner I could ever have dreamt of in all other ways.

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    Im kind of in this situation. The s.ex is great but we never do it. DH has a really low libido. We've averaged once a month for the last 4 years. I'd never leave him over it though. And we talk very openly about how it makes me feel. Maybe if the s.ex was bad and we never did it. That would really suck!

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    I'd be fine with it. Good men are hard to find so when you do have one, I say hold onto him with both hands. If the sex it crap, so be it. A relationship is much deeper than just sex. It's about love, respect, loyalty, trust with friendship being the base.

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    Not a deal breaker, as a pp said, good men are hard to come by.


 

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