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    Default Relationship question

    I know the replies to this question will vary but just wanted to get an idea based on a convo I had with some girlfriends......

    if you were in a marriage with an amazing person, great husband, great father, supportive, no arguments etc but the sex was really bad...... Would that be ok with you or a deal breaker??

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    I'd be fine with it, but I have almost no libido. In fact, change the wording in your OP to reflect the woman in the relationship, and that's me. So I guess my husband would also agree with my opinion LOL.

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    I wouldn't be ok with it but it wouldn't be a deal breaker. I would just find a way to make my sex life more enjoyable and satisfying... Even if it meant solo servicing frequently just to hit the pleasure point...

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    Considering we currently have sex zero times a month....... Id be fine with it lol.
    Poor hubby, my hormones just aren't interested at the moment.

    I think your sex life could be spiced up, you'd be crazy to give up all the other good things.


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    Not even close to a deal breaker. You work on it together and make it better. I think many people go through ups and downs in their s3x life, I don't think you end a marriage over it. No way.

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    I was surprised to hear that majority of our girls group said that it was a dal breaker for them so I thought it would swing that way on here too. It's interesting to hear what other people believe. Thanks for the replies, gives me more of an insight

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    To be completely honest I don't think I'd be with someone if it was terrible.

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    Out of curiosity, are those girls married or not?

    Maybe when you aren't actually in a marriage you can think it would be a deal breaker, but when you've actually stood in front of god or your friends or whoever and said that you're in it for keeps, then the idea of throwing that away over some bad sex seems ludicrous?

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    I would stay as sex isnt the end of everything.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jarylee View Post
    I know the replies to this question will vary but just wanted to get an idea based on a convo I had with some girlfriends......

    if you were in a marriage with an amazing person, great husband, great father, supportive, no arguments etc but the sex was really bad...... Would that be ok with you or a deal breaker??
    Bad sex (ie clueless) or no libido/low desire? I'd just do some 'training' if it was bad And no, not a deal breaker


 

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