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    Default 2 amazing men.. Which do you choose?

    Mr Stable
    Pros = stable, sensible, financially stead fast, all work no play. Investor.
    Cons = All work no play, Lacks empathy, controlling.

    Mr Unstable
    Pros = Love on legs, Caring, Cool calm & collected. Unconditionally loving. Good work ethic. Free sprit.
    Cons = Free Sprit = lacks stability.

    So which do you choose?

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    The first one would bore the absolute crap out of me. I'd choose #2 (but in your situation I'd wait TBH - give yourself time to think/breathe )

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    Quote Originally Posted by FITCHICK View Post
    Mr Stable
    Pros = stable, sensible, financially stead fast, all work no play. Investor.
    Cons = All work no play, Lacks empathy, controlling.

    Mr Unstable
    Pros = Love on legs, Caring, Cool calm & collected. Unconditionally loving. Good work ethic. Free sprit.
    Cons = Free Sprit = lacks stability.

    So which do you choose?
    Neither.

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    Me personally? I would work at the relationship with Mr Stable. I've been with "free and easy" before and I can't handle the uncertainty. You can work to spice Mr Stable up, love life, daily life etc. Its very hard to tie down Mr Free and Easy. Good luck ☺️

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    Neither.

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    Neither.
    And for you OP? Neither, IMO. Heal yourself first.

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    What if I loose them both?

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    There is always someone out there who is suited to you. If either of these guys are meant to be, it will work out how it's supposed to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FITCHICK View Post
    What if I loose them both?
    Then you'll be an amazing single mum who will be ready one day for love. I think if you can't choose TBH maybe neither is for you? It wasn't until I learned to be happy alone that I was open to meeting DP, my soulmate. I had another fling before him and there was absolutely not one hint of a speck of dust-sized doubt that DP is the one for me.

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    Neither. Can someone really be amazing and controlling at the same time? You deserve better than either of those choices. Have you only just ended your marriage? (there are so many stories on the forum I lose track). Spend some time on you, then look outward.

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