+ Reply to Thread
Results 1 to 2 of 2
  1. #1
    Join Date
    Sep 2012

    Default Why going private is the best decision I made

    So most of the threads I read in the private v public discussion tend to focus on the birthing end of pregnancy. There is always talk about continuity of care, etc. For me, I wanted this as a safety net. I never foresaw anything going wrong with my pregnancy, and really hoped that I would never need to use my PHI as the 'safety net'. Now, for the second time this year, I have had a missed miscarriage picked up at my first ob appt. As devastating as it is, I can't imagine how much worse it would have been to continue carrying around a passed fetus for weeks on end, not knowing and becoming more attached and excited as time went on. The first was found when I should have been 10 wks and had passed approx 1 wk earlier. This time around I should have been about 8 1/2 wks and bub passed approx 2 wks before. There were no signs or symptoms of miscarriage with either. This time, my ob has offered to run some tests to see if there is anything causing it. They may show something, they may show nothing, but at least this has been offered. Will I have to pay for them? Maybe, probably. Will it give me peace of mind? I guess that depends on the outcome. What I do know, is next time I fall pregnant, I know I am in great hands, and that the paranoid pregnant lady will not be brushed aside. That if I want to see my ob (more so my baby) earlier and more often, that it won't be a problem. I don't know that I would have been lucky enough to get this kind of care through the public system. Yes I have to pay for antenatal visits, but my ob is basically no gap for appts, so the out of pocket is nearly non existent. It doesn't make my heart ache any less, but I know that whatever the outcome, I've done all I can. Sorry for the single paragraph, my enter button doesn't seem to want to work this morning.

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Mar 2012
    Achievements:Topaz Star - 500 posts
    Hugs Carrie, I'm sorry to hear of your losses!

    I'm glad that you have an OB who is offering the support needed.


Similar Threads

  1. Need your help! Can't make a decision
    By Kochy23 in forum Choosing Baby Names
    Replies: 21
    Last Post: 19-06-2013, 11:15
  2. I think we've finally made a decision...
    By Als Bub in forum Choosing Baby Names
    Replies: 13
    Last Post: 19-06-2013, 10:46
  3. Decision making
    By Jarylee in forum General Chat
    Replies: 5
    Last Post: 07-01-2013, 08:50

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
free weekly newsletters | sign up now!
who are these people who write great posts? meet our hubbub authors!
Learn how you can contribute to the hubbub!

learn how you can become a reviewer!


forum - chatting now
christmas gift guidesee all Red Stocking
Einsteinz Music
Make music at Einsteinz Music in age-appropriate class in Sydney's Inner West, Eastern Suburbs or North Shore. For ages 6 mths - 4 yrs. All music is live! Christmas Gift certificates available for full term or casual classes. Call 0431 338 143
sales & new stuffsee all
Pea Pods
Buy 2 Award Winning Pea Pods Reusable One Size Nappies for only $38 (in your choice of colours) and receive a FREE roll of Bamboo Liners. Don't miss out, we don't usually have discounts on the nappies, so grab this special offer!
Special Offer! Save $12
featured supporter
Mini Maestros
Nurturing Confident Learners. Mini Maestros offers music classes for children 6 months to 5 years of age. It is the longest running and most successful Australian business of its kind.

Pregnant for the first-time?

Not sure where to start? We can help!

Our Insider Programs for pregnancy first-timers will lead you step-by-step through the 14 Pregnancy Must Dos!