Not sure if i have posted in the right place but my best friend of 20 years & her DH have made a decision which i am having a difficult time accepting (its really none of my business but she is reaching out to me for support & i want to be there for her but i am finding it difficult to put my personal feelings/beliefs aside this time & just support her) what do i do ? Heres a rundown of the situation ...
My friend & her DH have 6 girls between them (he has 4 from a previous relationship & they have 2 together - he sees the other 4 part time & he is a wonderful father to all of his girls from what i'm told, my friend also has a close relationship with his girls)
Friends DH desperately wants a son & so they have agreed to TTC another child BUT they are going to get the gender DNA test done when she is 9 weeks pregnant (this test is 99 % accurate) & if the results come back that the baby is another girl then they are going to terminate ... she said they are willing to do this a couple of times before they 'give up'
DH & i are blessed with 3 beautiful daughters so i guess i am taking her decision to heart a little bit IYKWIM