I agree. As upset as I was to lose our little Squidgy at 7w2d I was also relieved. The genetic diagnosis came back as Trisomy 18. Our baby wasn't viable and nature saved it from suffering. My DH and I are terrified that we will have a similar thing this time but trying to just take each day as it comes. We started TTC as soon as my cycle started back as normal. I had AF 28 days after my D&C and we conceived 2nd cycle. Crossing fingers!
I can understand where your DH is coming from. My DH said it was very very hard on him watching me suffer emotionally from the miscarriage. He felt helpless. Give him a little time, he will come round. xx