Has anyone ever heard or done an engagement party turn into a wedding ceremony? We are getting married in 3 months and now our location has fallen through for a second time. We are over stressing out about it and fighting with inlaws. We both aren't too keen for anything extravagant and would be happy with close friends and family there. Obviously people won't take an engagement party as seriously as a wedding so a lot of people wont make it. But that's totally okay by us. We were originally meant to be having it in my DP mums backyard and we are sick of butting heads with her on things. Its made me not want it at all. We have 3 months before the wedding and we are back to square one! Any light on an engagement turned ceremony would be great!