Welcome @jennahhh1 😊 it's a hard decision deciding whether to do IUI on IVF if you are using your own eggs. For DP and I it's an easy choice because we want to egg share (I will carry her bio baby and she will carry mine - well that's the plan). We want to do it that way so we are both physically connected to the baby as well as emotionally (which is already a given).
When are you looking at starting? Do you know which clinic you will be using?