No go this month, BFN for me
Sorry to hear TeeMM. It's so heartbreaking. Lots of love and care to both you and your partner.
Thanks for the support, I think I took it pretty well, I was relieved when our nurse said we can move straight into another cycle without waiting so we are on to FET # 2 straight away. In think we are going to push our clinic a bit harder this time to transfer 2 embys, they didn't want to deal with the risks of multiples but I feel that should be our decision to make, it's my body and our family that will have to deal with those risks.
Hi @TeeMM sorry to hear about your bfn. I understand what you mean about wanting to transfer two - we pushed our FS and he has now agreed - however we are still undecided as to if we are going to do it or not, as he made it very clear that transferring two does not double your chances. It does increase them a very small percentage so it goes from 35% with one to about 37-40% with two. He said really, it means we're losing out on another 30-35% since if we didn't use two we'd have an extra to transfer next time if you know what I mean? My cycle was a nasty one and transfer had to be cancelled due to hyper stimulation, and we only ended up with 3 in the freezer. Two day 3's and one day 6 blast. Transfer should be sometime late next week so we're still working out the best thing to do.
Good luck to you xx
2009 - 2010 - diagnosed with severe endo - 2 x laps, 1 x laparotomy to remove endo.
2011 - IVF - 1st cycle - chemical pregnancy, FET - BFN, 2nd FET - BFN
2013 - another laparotomy - lost right ovary and tube to a 15cm endometrioma
2014 - July - cycle #2
Good luck with your transfer! It's a tough decision to transfer 1 or 2 but I really believe that decision should rest with us, we are the ones who's lives it will effect if more than 1 implant. And whilst we are going to specialists for then medical knowledge and opinion, at the end of the day each one of them will have a slightly differing opinion..
Haven't been on for a while but we just got blood test back HCG of 1140!! We transferred 2, so who knows? Woooooo
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