Good luck Amy and Stacey for ttc next year. I don't have much advice on Melbourne clinics but I have two friends down there same sex who flew up and used our Gold Coast clinic for ivf because they found it easier than using a clinic down there. I know that the wait list here is virtually non existent for donor sperm but can be years long in other states.
My best advice would be to make a few phone inquiries to ask about donor wait lists a if they work with same sec couples. Wishing you the best of luck