Hope you settle in a get comfy on this forum. My favourite threads are the same sex parents ones because all the ladies over here know exactly what you're going through and they're just so lovely and supportive. It's nice to have so many people in your corner!
Sorry about your IUI's - DP and I were in the same boat as you. We had 4 failed IUI's and then moved on to IVF to get our BFP! We're 22 weeks pregnant tomorrow with our little princess.
Do you know when you're starting your IVF?