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    I agree with Em, MrsMac. You should see a GP to try to put your mind at ease. As for DH, i don't really have much to offer there....i think ours must have gone to the same school of husbandry :/ Take care & i'm hoping for the best for you.

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    Sorry, just saw your post after mine. Good idea.... All the best.

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    Mrsmac remember a lot of men don't know how to react. I'm sure inside he is going through his own turmoil, he is just showing it in a different manner to the way women deal with their emotions. Plus he is probably trying to be the level headed one here. I'm sure he hates seeing you upset, my husband had his moments where he would turn around and say insensitive things as well but I think he thought he was being helpful.
    Are you going back to see the fertility specialist? Did you make a plan when you saw him in case this pregnancy didn't work out? I agree with the others go and see the gp tonight it may put your mind at ease.

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    Well I just had a scan and the doc said it looks like the sac is folding in on itself .....so much for miracle stories of heartbeats...the doc said now I just wait for nature to take its course and do nothing...not really bleeding much..the end

    Panda basically when I went tomy FS last week I told him to please continue as if I was not pregnant as well I had waited so long...lost weight, convinced I would MC and we drove 2 hours to get there...well before the appt while we were waiting he wrote up my treatment? Plan or whatever but once I toldhim I was utd he didnt want to know me...gave me a 3 sec tv scan to confirm not EP...had to basically pull teeth for him to tell me test results, DH sperm etc..woukd not discuss what to do if I want to start and in fact back in the waiting room I was still trying to ask him if I should get my tube removed what about the fibroid etc...they still charged me $310 out of pocket and woukd have been there maybe 10 mins but doubt it. They tell me I just ring when I want to start but I dont know amything? But i basically now need that appointment again? Didnt bring up my weight after all that. Low cost clinic so you can see a diff doc every time...or the same one every time but he did not impress me I waited for the full term and I paid full money I think I deserved more

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    I'd write to the clinic director and complain MrsMac... that's not on.
    Sorry to read the outcome

    Em x

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    Dont know what to do about it ... im just peeved that everyone looked at me like I was nuts and wouldnt entertain the idea that something might go wrong even at my request and it did...less than a week later...really thats the business they are in...anyway thing is DH had a day off work for that too anyway I dont know what to do now about anything I guess I need to get through the next week or so first...tempted to try for another couple of months natural but I have been saying too much time wasted

    Im sorry for raving im just really alone atm..

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    MrsMac, I'm sorry to hear what happened today Don't be sorry for how you're feeling, many of us have had at least one miscarriage and know how devastating they are. I hope you can get back into your clinic quickly.

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    Mrsmac that's terrible service. Can you ask to be put on on a cancellation list and try to get an appointment as soon as possible. The doctor you saw would have written notes re your case, can you not call back and ask them what his diagnosis was regarding the tube? At my clinic my doctor would always write up a protocol for the next cycle and then when I was ready I would contact the nurse and have my meeting with her and pick up the drugs.

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    Thankyou, I will probably contact them in the next few days and find out whats to be done. The MC hasnt properly started yet still hardly even a spot since the other day

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    Hello ladies, i have been a bit mia for a bit.

    Mrsmac iam so sorry to read your update. You have worked so hard over the months. Hopefully DH comes around soon. I can hear how upset you are feeling and i wish i could say more to make you feel better. We have all had those moments so dont feel alone. .
    Take care of yourself. Write to the clinic- you waited a long time for your turn, you deserve more!

    Threegoes i hope things improve with DH. Just the ivf part itself is so stressful and when you have the added stress of not seeing eye to eye makes it harder. I totally understand where yoû coming from. I had the same feeling that at least i know i gave my everything plus more no regrets when iam older. In that sense i have been lucky that dh was supportive and in fact it was he who walked me through de journey. Just be gentle with dh and i hope soon in time he understands your need.

    Bertie hope it all works out for you. I know the feeling of not sitting down and waiting! In terms of my de arrangement it went fairly smoothly. It was hard coordinating in terms of logistics, i had to fly in from overseas, niece from Sydney (i flew with her) and then clinic in Bris. But we had appt with FS in the morning, donor coordinators separately at lunch then counsellor together in the arvo with DH linked in through overseas. Bts done and by the evening we were flying back to Syd. QFG made it easier for me but we did have quite a bit of working out to do via email beforehand. It has been a long road for us with our eggs but in the end we must be satisfied that we did all that we could before going de. And once that baby is growing inside you de is the last thing on your mind!

    Anyone heard from Micca and Twocam, hope they good.

    Mrs erin, Panda, Emski, Mrs P and everyone else reading along .


    AFM taking each week as a milestone, will be 6 months next week and morph scan looked on track. Everything is aching, pulling, stretching, itching..... And guiltily DH loves every bit of it . I havent joined any due threads just been less active. I hope this year brings us some bfps to all you deserving ladies. I know we wont give up until we are holding our bubs.

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