Thanks octoberbaby I do have a clinic within about 5mins of here that I almost started with years ago except Very expensive but yes basically no waiting. Really I think they have a higher success rate than TFC but I thought being able to do 4 cycles was better than 1. My mother thinks 1 with immediate attention and better quality is better than 4. Really it also comes down to me letting go of the notion that we only can go as far as our savings allows...i guess just hoping i wont need to,..also because of how apathetic DH is about it all...ie pushing my luck if we start getting into more debt and selling off assets..im kinda worried once I do I will never want to quit.
Im really frustrated about the scan I had that I know something is there potentially a problem but need to wait 2 mths for TFC to say yes or no...however im not so optimistic about my weight loss now .,, I just really didnt want to do the weight thing then the body thing after ...it seems ridiculous time wasting.
I guess I could call the closer clinic ...do I even mention the other clinic or is it common to move around...would I just go there with my scans and say look what I have how bout some ivf and go as far as I need to know what to do with my lumpy uterus then pull out? Gawd hubby would love to provide a specimen again lol...actually no...heh...small ask I reckon,..I guess I under estimate him....do I even need to talk about ivf just say ttc? Errr I would need a referral wouldnt I?
Phone counselling sounds good I think I will look into it
Thanks for listening...I cant see past myself sometimes and well as I said pple around me dont get it...mums all for donor eggs in saying...stop the panic... and well im not against them but I damn well want a chance to try plan A first if you dont mind
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