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    Thanks octoberbaby I do have a clinic within about 5mins of here that I almost started with years ago except Very expensive but yes basically no waiting. Really I think they have a higher success rate than TFC but I thought being able to do 4 cycles was better than 1. My mother thinks 1 with immediate attention and better quality is better than 4. Really it also comes down to me letting go of the notion that we only can go as far as our savings allows...i guess just hoping i wont need to,..also because of how apathetic DH is about it all...ie pushing my luck if we start getting into more debt and selling off assets..im kinda worried once I do I will never want to quit.

    Im really frustrated about the scan I had that I know something is there potentially a problem but need to wait 2 mths for TFC to say yes or no...however im not so optimistic about my weight loss now .,, I just really didnt want to do the weight thing then the body thing after ...it seems ridiculous time wasting.

    I guess I could call the closer clinic ...do I even mention the other clinic or is it common to move around...would I just go there with my scans and say look what I have how bout some ivf and go as far as I need to know what to do with my lumpy uterus then pull out? Gawd hubby would love to provide a specimen again lol...actually no...heh...small ask I reckon,..I guess I under estimate him....do I even need to talk about ivf just say ttc? Errr I would need a referral wouldnt I?

    Phone counselling sounds good I think I will look into it

    Thanks for listening...I cant see past myself sometimes and well as I said pple around me dont get it...mums all for donor eggs in saying...stop the panic... and well im not against them but I damn well want a chance to try plan A first if you dont mind

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    Chiefsgirl how far into 2ww are you when is test day?



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    Forevagods, hello and welcome. Best wishes for your FET.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mrsmac123 View Post
    Chiefsgirl how far into 2ww are you when is test day?

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    I'm 7dp5dt, my test isn't till 2/12 tough. I'm not holding out much hope though as I've had some cramping today, last cycle all symptoms stopped and I got cramping on 7dp5dt and got AF 4 days later. I'm pretty much gutted, it was our 4th cycle this year and was our best chance so far

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    Thanks for the warm welcome SpringRain!
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    You never know - I only had symptoms days 5&6 dpt5dt last time ... don't lose hope Chiefsgirl

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    Stay positive Chiefsgirl, you seriously never know. After 8 transfers, the only difference I noticed between my positives and negatives was that af didn't come - even though I always felt like it was going to at any time! And in saying that, I even got a positive, great beta, on a cycle where I bled - alot - from 5 days before my bt (early mc). I've got my fingers crossed this is your lucky cycle t

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    Chiegsgirl I have already seen some very unexpected bfps hang in there

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    It's definitely a tricky one Mrs Mac and you need to do what you feel is right. I definitely understand the money thing. I don't know much about TFC but I don't think their well set up to cater for patients with a few issues. They seem best for people with relatively straight forwardinfertility issues. Given that you know you are dealing with a few things I wonder if seeing someone else would be better. I think it's pretty common for people to visit different clinics. Maybe you could take your results and say you've had some preliminary tests, you're worried about how they may be affecting your fertility and wanted to know what they might suggest. I think it's pretty common for people to take time before starting IVF (we took 12 months while I convinced DH!) so they won't necessarily think anything if you don't go back again.

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    mrsmac I agree with all the girls on here. It's hard waiting and more so when you have so many unanswered personal questions and concerns. I don't know about TFC but from what I've read previously on this site from other girls who have written about their experience there it does seem to a place for those cases that are straight forward and from your posts your case may not be. Could you get a referral to see a specialist who does gynaecology and IVF for an opinion at least whilst you're waiting.

    Emski, I hope your DC went well and you are recovering well. Good luck on your donor planning.

    Chiefgirl I know how you feel, I know all the patterns by now too but I guess until you get your test they tell you you can't tell. Wishing you success

    AFM expecting also a BFN as probability favours this for us but until the test there is of course a chance so just waiting for the sign (AF) or the blood test result this Friday. It wasn't a very good embryo we transferred so the plan is FET next.

    hi everyone else and wishing you all some happiness and hope coming to Christmas and in the New Year.

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