That's terrible your DH was never taught to clean his penis by his parents. But I still can't accept that as a reason for circumcision. You say you don't agree that keeping it clean would solve the problems yet also that your husband was never taught to clean it? So was that the issue? If he was never taught to clean it properly I can see why there could be an issue, but then it's a failing on his parents part and not a reason to have a penis circumcised. Many people get annoyed at this analogy but would you have a child's ears cut off because they didn't clean behind them?