Hi Waiting, we are in Sydney with Genea and I am currently pregnant with number 2, and both of our successes have been through non-medicated FET's. In total we did 3 full cycles and had 1 ET, 4 FETs, plus 1 failed thaw. I found them to be much easier on the body, as there are no drugs, just monitoring, although during one FET cycle I was having BT's every day around ovulation time because my body was a couple of days late! All cycles were nerve wracking, but I found the FETs a lot easier to deal with because my body also wasn't a raging ball of hormones, which made your belly (and head!!) feel like it was going to explode . I am 38 now (bub due in Jan) and was 35 when my son was born in 2010. Our issues are MFI due to hubby's vasectomy, and we also needed genetic testing on all of our embryos as we both also carry the cystic fibrosis gene (which we didn't know about until we started IVF).
It's completely normal to feel nervous going into an FET as well, the whole process is stressful and nerve wracking no matter what stage you are at x