@Felicia oh no, I hope this hasn't stressed you! It's a good idea to go in and get it checked out so you have a better idea of what's going on. Did dr Lekich tell you that DH has low motility? We didn't find this out until we went for advice on IVF.
I hope you get some idea of how you can go forward. Do you mind me asking why you won't consider IVF? I wasn't sure if I would go through with it either at first due - my reasons were due to what it involves physically and emotionally.
Would love to hear how you go with things!