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    As much as my heart aches to even think it, I would choose my DP over our unborn baby. I don't think I could tell her that though because I'm unsure if that would also be her choice. This is our first child though.

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    Me. I've had my mortality shoved in my face recently and it matters. My kids deserve their mum.

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    Like others, I would say the baby, DH would say me. But when I look at it logically and not pg, I have two living children that I would be leaving behind. I have already had to make the decision to end a pg bc it was life threatening, but I made that choice bc it was never going to be viable anyway.

    So from an emotional POV I would want to save the baby, from a logical POV I would chose my own life bc of the children I already have.

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    If we're talking a full term labour gone bad scenario, save the baby. Even though it would be my 3rd & mean leaving all 3 without a mum. DH just said he would choose to save me.

    If it's one of those where I find out I have some terrible illness whilst pregnant & need to terminate to begin treatment to save my life - I don't know. That's less emotive, you'd have time to weigh your options & be far more pragmatic about it. As I type I think I'd still choose the baby - I don't know if I could live with the decision that I chose my life over my child's.

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    Mother. I lost my mum when I was younger and I would never want my children to experience that pain.

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    I'd have to say mother


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    I would save the baby. I would die for my son without a second thought.

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    Always mother. Always, especially if there are already other kids.
    sad thought but I think I agree with this.

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