Ok, I have been having problems with my DP.
He is smoking pot and probably selling it too.
I don't want any part of it. He used to hide it from me but now it's out there. This guy is not the guy that I was dating.
He has become a disrespectful, ignorant, arrogant, mysognistic control freak at home, while still maintaining a perfect front to the rest of the world.
He has threatened me and our 2.5yo and 16mo, my family and friends.
I need to leave and take out a Dvo but Im terrified. I'm moving important stuff to my mums and have a little money.
Has anyone had experience with a Dvo? Because from what I've seen, in a lot of cases it doesn't work.
Im also scared that eventually if I have to share custody, that I will hand over my kids to someone who can only tolerate the family when he's stoned or taking them on drug runs - my mind is going crazy!