DD1 was 2yrs 4 months, DD2 was 21 months. It was brutal with DD2, she was desperately tired by 4pm, so I had to be super organised with dinner ready to pop in the oven, otherwise i was trying to prepare it while she was wanting me. Kids were in the bath by 4.45 and dinner was at 5.30. DD2 was in bed most nights between 6.00 and 6.30 at the very very latest and she slept until about 7.30am. It was the only upside to her dropping the day sleep.