How are you this morning MrsT
How are you this morning MrsT
Well I'm still hanging on by a thread. There's brown every time on TP and liner is discoloured but not lots, if that makes sense. Sorry for tmi lol.
after a lot of thought & a good talk with dp we have decided just to take it month to month from here on & re-assess if/when af comes. i really need to keep busy & learn some new coping strategies to get thru, would love some ideas....how does everyone else cope with the dreaded tww & bfn's?? how do you stay positive??
Happy, you should come over to some testing threads for your questions. The girls are so great in there. For me, it's having a secondary goal which works in conjunction with ttc. So we decided to start trying now, instead of in March like we originally planned. But we have $20k debt that we are trying to get rid of before bub comes. So I can say to myself; well that sucks I got a bfn BUT that means we are one step closer to our debt paid off before bub! I don't know if you could find something similar?
thanx mrs t but the testing threads just stress me out more, seeing all the bfp's especially the ones that dont even have 2 try . i dont really have anything else 2 look forward too, everything else just seems to fall into place....except this....maybe i just need 2 find some sort of goal to set my mind to
coco - that was lucky about your colleague then. I can vouch that it sucks having people ask if you're pregnant yet when you've just been a pin cushion for the 3rd time that week at the fertility specialist.
Mrst - I *thought* it was 18dpo that I got the bfp but I hadn't tested for 3 days either. When we went for our dating scan though, we were put back a week based on LMP soooo with super late ovulation, it could have been about 11dpo that the bfp showed? I got a positive opk on cd 17 but that only means O is likely within the next 12-48hrs so it was all plausible in the end. At the end of it all though, af was 8days late when i finally re-tested and got the positive
If it's just brown spotting, it could be implantation You will need to wait it out until the end of the week though before HCG is hgh enough to pick up if you have implant bleeding now. I've never have implantation spotting with any of the 3 pregnancies so can't otherwise help much sorry. One day at a time
Implant bleeding is only 30% so I was hesitant to hope for that :-/ if I'm implanting so late then that would mean O was super super late (and we didn't bd much so I would think that late o would mean missing the dates but who knows!) but yes that would be another 7 days before testing YIKES. damn bodies!!!!
Michelle - I just realised I didn't reply to your msg about DF. Yes she is PUPO hehe we shall see what happens. I have my fingers crossed so tight they might break lol. Thanks for your support
Two girls, one dream and baby you are it!
Happy, there are some threads going for women who have been trying 12+ months. It's an upbeat supportive section, you might find hope there xox
Thanx Mrs t how do I find these threads? I'm on my mobile can't see them
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