Thanks for the kind words everyone re. Meadows birth. Feeling better about it at the moment and what you said made a lot of sense, J.
Nila, lovely pic of the twins. I am glad you had a good talk with DH to sort things out. I have also been at the brink with my DH. Lots of problems and not much time to address them! Its so hard with a young family and we are struggling too. Big hugs to you.
Toni- hope river is ok after her fall, and like others have said it happens to most of us at some point! Don't be too hard on yourself hun.
Afm, had Toby's birthday party today so lots to do and clean up! I made a big monster truck cake which he was happy with. Feeling very overwhelmed with so many things to do and think about at the moment. There just aren't enough hours in the day!
Also struggling with meadows sleep again. She's been waking loads at night after being so good for a few days. Also hard to put her down during the day and i feel unable to dedicate the time to sleep training her due to having Toby around too demanding attention. For those who have used a method, eg SOS, are you able to summarise for me? Trying to decide what to do but want gentler approaches. Got SOS, no cry sleep solution and baby whisperer reserved from the library but there is a few ppl ahead of me and can't afford to buy them all! Thanks in advance!