I think, as hard as it is, just relax, take him at his word, and see how it works out. Second guessing everything just drives us mad.
It is very hard to do but I'm trying my hardest! One thing that I am glad about (but very sad), he is getting his dog put down today which was our dog until I moved out, because he went another dog really bad yesterday and we no longer trust him around the girls! He asked me before he made the final decision! Will be sad to say my final goodbye when I pick the girls up! The decision to ask my opinion on it made me not dislike him as much! I hve a little more respect now.