My partner wouldn't even entertain the idea for a second. It's not up to me to 'allow' or not allow him to do anything, but any type of man who wants to find ways to get out of financially supporting his children is no man of mine.
Nope. Not at all comfortable with the thought.
Because either biological relationship doesn't matter, and so, why not use someone else's sperm or biological relationship does matter - so absolutely not.
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Yep. I'm ok with that
Mummy of Max 2 from donor eggs from my lovely sister.
FWIW my DH pays what he's meant to and then some as well as having them kids almost 50/50.
For the getting rid of child support - no. If he no longer saw the children i wouldn't be with him anyway as a father needs to be a father and i have no respect for deadbeats.
Sperm...maybe as there could be a compelling reason (donor match for marrow if an older child was ill for example). So, assuming the kids were in our lives and we knew the only way to get a match was another child...i would consider it for transplant type reasons (but then that brings up a whole raft of other discussions about the life of the child to be born).
If the ex just wanted a child on a whim "because she really wants another one"...then no.
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