I would have to question the sanity of the people making such an arrangement.
Once a child is born it becomes about the rights of the child. All children deserve to be loved and supported by their father in every way.
Any man who did not want to be a father to his children, would not be the man for me.
Any man who wanted to father a child to his ex so he could become a dead beat dad, would not be the man for me.
No way. Hell would freeze over before that ever happened.
The OP didn't say anything about no longer being a father...(?) it just said no longer having to pay child support. That doesn't mean the child(ren) wouldn't still spend time with their dad! Financial arrangements work when both parties agree what's fair in a given situation, not simply because a father pays CS. I don't see how it has to be detrimental to the child(ren).
When you are a parent you want what's best for your children. I cannot see many situations where one parent not contributing financially is good for children. Children cost money, and decent adult will want to ensure their children have what they need.
Unless there are extreme circumstances, I view it as negligence.
No, firstly he had those children so should support them regardless, secondly, it doesn't work that way, the child support thing isn't as cut and dry as that, and lastly, why on earth would she want to have another baby with him once they are separated. I wouldn't be ok with it at all.
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