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  1. #1
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    Aug 2010
    Brisbane QLD

    Default Recently separated

    Hi all,
    I just want to know does it get any easier?!??

    My husband left at the end of November Last year. I was 3 months pregnant with our third child. My son was 4, & my daughter was 9 months.

    Hes been very nasty ever since. He's very selfish, childish & sneaky.
    I just want to know from your experience, how long did it take for things to settle down with your ex?
    He's got a new girlfriend, & he's got a baby due in a couple of months with a different girl.

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    Aug 2009
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    I hate to say it...but it sounds like it is very messy and will probably be quite difficult for many years.

    I think the key to making it work is how you respond to him...it doesn't sound like he will change but if you can find a way to keep yourself separate from it emotionally it might make it better for you and the kids.

    Hang in there.


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